Age concern: A brief look at chronophilic behaviours
As someone who is academically interested in sexual paraphilias, it never ceases to amaze me how people working in the sexology field (myself included) love to categorize and sub-categorize every nuance of human sexual behaviour. One of the ways in which sexual behaviour has been categorized relates to the age of the person to which the person has a sexual paraphilia. Most of you reading this blog will probably be thinking that when it comes to age preference, the world is broadly split into the minority of individuals who are involved in paedophilia (i.e., individuals who derive sexual pleasure and arousal from children) and those whose sexual preference is geared towards sex with adults. In fact, in researching this article I was surprised to learn that I am a teleiophile. Teleiophilia (and occasionally called ‘adultophilia’) refers to adult individuals whose primary sexual focus is other adult individuals. (As Dr. Anil Aggrawal reassuringly notes in his book, Forensic and Medico-legal Aspects of Sexual Crimes and Unusual Sexual Practices teleiophilia is not a sexual paraphilia). Those individuals whose primary sexual preference is for elderly adults are said to be engaging in gerontophilia (and sometimes called graeophilia).
According to the fourth edition of the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV), paedophilia is described as a form of sexual paraphilia whereby individuals experience intense sexual urges towards children (aged under 16 years of age), and experiences recurrent sexual urges towards (and fantasizes about) children that the individual has acted upon and/or causes distress and interpersonal difficulty. Technically, many child abusers would not be defined as paedophiles according to the DSM criteria as the behaviour may not be causing the abusers any psychological problems themselves. However, in day-to-day language, most people would define any adult who engages in any form of sexual behaviour with a minor as paedophilia.
Apologies for what you are about to read because anyone reading it is likely to feel revulsion by what I am about to write. One of the most disturbing and horrific cases that I am aware of involved two children who were systematically abused by their grandfather and their grandfather’s friends. The grandfather had sexually abused his daughter throughout her childhood, and then began abusing his daughter’s children from an early age. After the grandfather died, a video was played at the reading of the will that the family thought contained the grandfather’s verbal reading of his last will and testament. What the video actually contained was a short film of the grandfather having sexual intercourse with his two-year old granddaughter and his four-year old grandson.
The reason I recounted this story is that this is an example of what is known as nepiophilia (or infantophilia) and refers to individuals that have a sexual preference for very young children (usually aged between birth and three years). In the upcoming DSM-V, the term paedohebrephilia refers to the expansion and reclassification of paedophilia into subgroups such as the distinctions between paedophiles that prefer pubescent or post-pubescent children. More specifically, hebephilia refers to those individuals who have a sexual preference for pubescent youths (i.e., typically adolescents aged around 11 to 14 years of age). However, some authors – such as Dr. Anil Aggrawal – claim that hebephilia is a preference for pubescent children between 11 and 14 years for females and 11-16 years for males.
Ephebophilia refers to those individuals sexual preference for post-pubescent youths (mid-to-late adolescents aged around 15 to 19 years of age). Other researchers in the sexual studies field (such as Kurt Freund) have used the term ‘adolescentophilia’ as referring to individuals who have a sexual preference of pubescent and/or adolescent youths. According to the Wikipedia entry on hebephilia:
“In 1914, physician Kurt Boas described hebephilia as ‘an alleged form of female fetishism’. Anthropologist and ethnopsychiatrist Paul K. Benedict uses the term to distinguish pedophiles from sex offenders whose victims were adolescents. Forensic psychologist Karen Franklin traced the history of use of the term in a 2010 article. She states that it is a variation of ephebophilia used by Magnus Hirschfield in 1906 to describe homosexual attraction to males between puberty and their early 20s, who considered the condition normal and nonpathological. Historically, criminal hebephilic acts where victims were ‘biologically ready for coitus’ (i.e. statutory rape) were considered distinct from other forms of criminal sexuality such as rape and pedophilia, with wide variations within and across nations regarding what age was acceptable for adult-adolescent sexual contacts. Bernard Glueck, Jr. conducted research on sex offenders at Sing Sing prison in the 1950s, using ‘hebephilia’ as one of several classifications of subjects according to offense…The prevalence of hebephilia within the general population is unknown”.
In relation to ephebophilia, the Wikipedia entry notes that:
“Because mid-to-late adolescents usually have physical characteristics near (or in some cases, identical) to that of full-grown adults, some level of sexual attraction to persons in the age group is common among adults. Ephebophilia is used only to describe the preference for mid-to-late adolescent sexual partners, not the mere presence of some level of sexual attraction. Generally, the preference is not regarded by psychologists as a pathology when it does not interfere with other major areas of one’s life, and is not listed by name as a mental disorder in the [DSM-IV] or as a paraphilia”.
This also raises questions such as ‘Are some kinds of paedophilic behaviour worse than others?’ For instance, is a 25-year old man that has consensual sex with a 15-year old girl engaging in a sexual behaviour that is as morally repugnant as a 50-yer old man who has non-consensual sex with an 8-year old girl? Such questions have come to the fore over the last year concerning the sexual behaviour of radio and television presenters Jimmy Savile and John Peel. As Dr. Michael Seto notes in a 2008 book chapter on paedophilia in Sexual Deviance: Theory, Assessment and Treatment:
“An interesting theoretical question is whether sexual age preferences can be represented on a continuum, such that most adults are attracted to sexually mature persons, but some individuals are attracted to pubescent children, prepubescent children, or infants in varying degrees. These age preferences may instead represent different “taxa” (plural of “taxon” – i.e., natural group), and it is possible that each taxon involves a different etiological pathway. Thus the causes of pedophilia may differ from the causes of hebephilia, nepiophilia or gerontophilia. It is also plausible that there are multiple etiological pathways for atypical age preferences such as pedophilia, including the genetic transmission of predispositions, poor maternal health, fetal exposure to toxins or infections, and early head injuries”.
Encompassing all of these different types of age-related sexual paraphilias is the term chronophilia. This term was coined by Professor John Money in his 1986 book Lovemaps, and was defined as a form of sexual paraphilia in which individuals experience a sexual preference that is limited to individuals within particular age ranges. However, despite the fact the term was coined by one of the world’s best known sexologists, the term has arguably not been generally accepted, adopted and/or used by most people working in the field of abnormal sexual behaviours.
Dr Mark Griffiths, Professor of Gambling Studies, International Gaming Research Unit, Nottingham Trent University, Nottingham, UK
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Posted on May 23, 2013, in Case Studies, Compulsion, Obsession, Paraphilia, Psychiatry, Psychological disorders, Psychology, Sex, Sex addiction and tagged adolescentophilia, Adultophilia, Chronophilia, Ephebophilia, Gerontophilia, Graeophilia, Hebephilia, Infantophilia, Nepiophilia, Paedohebrephilia, Paedophilia, Sexual fetishism, Sexual paraphilia, Teleiophilia. Bookmark the permalink. 6 Comments.
dr. are you aware of a resource that defines fetishes? i was recently asked about a name for a fetish that involves the following: “I’m not sure of its official fetish name or if it even has one, but in the BDSM world there is a form of voyeurism that I have always enjoyed thoroughly: A group of men or couples gathered at a private dinner/drinks or get-together and in the center of the room, on top of a table/small stage is a very attractive nude sub or bottom (some Goreans do this) bound and blindfolded. For hours (or long period of time) the “object of desire” is merely gazed upon with silent affection. In the latter stage of the evening, the sub’s/bottom’s Dom or Top chooses the specific actions to be done, or may choose nothing more — it’s completely his/her choice; the guests abide.”
if you know how i can find a name for this, please let me know. thanks.
I doubt if this behaviour has a special name. It just sounds like a sub-variant of voyeurism. Best wishes. Mark
Dr. Mark: Please learn to differentiate between pedophiles and child molesters. Because not all pedophiles molest children, let alone their daughters or grand-daughters.
If you are a pedophile that doesnt mean you are a child molester. Plenty of pedophiles would never abuse any kid at all.
Some pedophiles even create groups for virtuous pedophiles (like virped dot org). You should check them out.
A last thing:
” individuals who derive sexual pleasure and arousal from children”
That is like saying “gays are individuals who derive sexual pleasure and arousal from having a penis in their butt”
Its not really a correct description. Pedophilia is more like a sexual orientation, meaning sexual desire, love and affection towards people who happen to be children.
“The reason I recounted this story is that this is an example of what is known as nepiophilia (or infantophilia) and refers to individuals that have a sexual preference for very young children (usually aged between birth and three years).”
That is not an example of nepiophilia. That is more like an example of abuse. Some nepiophiles feel romantically attracted to toddlers and would never abuse one. The few ones who do abuse are bastards, but some are not.
I used to be attracted to toddlers, that attraction lessened with the years, but I never abused one. In real life, I would never even think of doing something, but I cant help to feel in love and have romantic and erotic feelings for some of them.
LOL look at the Japanese men flock around these two girls about 12.
Are Japanese men more attracted to minors than Western men or is it just that they’re more open about it because it’s less taboo in their culture?
Thank you for writing about this. My own grandfather raped me when I was a toddler. He injured me, and when he heard footsteps indicating someone was walking into the house, he locked me in a cedar chest. I suffocated and had a vision of angels, then found myself back in my body just after he unlocked the chest. He spanked me for wetting the wool blankets.
I was an active child and in many ways normal. Over time the injury caused me to have back problems, and now that I am getting older, the back problems became a bit more difficult. It took some time but I found some good physical therapists and an excellent chiropractor.
I raised a child well and he is happily married. I can say that I think that having suffered abuse is no excuse for abusing others.